||[Jan. 1st, 2009|08:57 pm]
Queer Trying to Conceive
well..here we go! This is starting to make it official i guess, kind of scary to be honest.|
Any ways, I am Bio Femme, 26, living in Eugene, Oregon, married to a fantastic, handsome, and wickedly wonderful FtM who is 36. We have been together for going on 4 years (lost count to be honest), and Married officially for 2 years on June 22nd. We are officially TTC starting this month. I am going to carry, and He is going to get me preggo (via a syringe and a buddy of ours who is willing to donate). We are very excited, scared, and looking forward to this new chapter of our life. now, on to a question....or ten...
1. For others who have gone the artificial insemination at home rout, and have had a friend donate the goo, how have you protected your self against the friend trying to come back later on and trying to get rights to the child? i guess my concern is that at a later date, with out some sort of paper work involved, that our friend (even though i dont think he would), could try to get some sort of rights to the future child.
we really dont have any other option beside this, or me going out and finding random guy at a bar..-shudders- no thanks...so i guess i also want to know, how did this work out for you?