||[Oct. 30th, 2008|12:01 am]
Queer Trying to Conceive
Hi. I'm Adam. I'm 18 and a FTM,pre-physical transistion.|
I have been going through wanting to become pregnant, give birth, and raise kids for about 2 or 3 months now. Well, I've always wanted kids but never this badly and to this extent.
I have a boyfriend...and the funny thing is he wants to get pregnant,too. As in, he wants to CARRY a baby INISIDE him. He's gay a bit effiminate, but definately not MTF or anything like that. For a while, I thought this hilarious, but now I REALLY understand him.
So, we both want to get pregnant...only I'm the only one who can. The bad thing is, though, we're both in college. I'm a cosmetology major, and should be in school for another year and a half. He's a video game design major and is going for four years: 2 years at the college where we are now and then onto Full Sail University in Florida(we live in Mississippi) for another 2 years.
I have a few questions:
I will be getting my certificate and all in a year and a half or less. I will be doing hair, make-up, and possibly tattoos and piercings. You can make some pretty good money right there. Not TOTALLY rich, but still. He works pretty good jobs and he's got good finaicial aid and good grades and all.
Should we wait to try to conceive AFTER he graduates and gets his degree? Or can we do it after we just get financialy stable? Yes, I realize how expensive children are, espeically in this generation. And I do realize that you have to READY to raise children...and for the right reasons.
Should I wait to do hormones AFTER i give birth?
When I change my name legally can my name change on my children's birth certificates? Will I also have to go through a bunch of other legal shit with my kids as I transistion to male?
Please answer my questions. Thank you for your time. Have a good night.
P.S. Any other FTMs in my situation or have "been there, done that"?